So, you're probably wondering why on Earth you'd want to bother to waste your time with another sex blog. I know there are plenty out there and, to be perfectly honest, I don't follow most of them. It's not because I have anything against them, but it's more that, until a few months ago, my personal interest in sex was... well, not exactly the norm.
Let's start off with introductions, shall we?
I'm Charlotte, Charley for short, and no, it's not my real name. I'm being anonymous because it's what I'm comfortable with. Perhaps in the future there will be a 'reveal', but considering the nature of the blog, I feel that discretion on the who's who front is advised. For the few of you who do actually know me, I ask that you respect my wishes and please keep my identity, and that of anyone who may be involved, to yourself.
....That wasn't much of an introduction, was it? Much more of a disclaimer, I'd say. Let's try that again.
I'm twenty, living in Tampa, and identify as a gender fluid pansexual. I'm currently in a polyamorous relationship with another gender fluid pansexual and we are very happy with each other, despite many things that have fallen into our path.
Why this blog is here is a somewhat amusing story. I have this tendency to want to start projects, all kinds of projects. I'm in the process of learning how to knit, teaching myself how to play the ukulele, writing a novel, and running another blog. This isn't including the plans I have of starting my own business and going back to school.
The point here? I like projects.
So, what started out as mere frustration at the local bookstore's section on sex (mainly that I found it to be completely useless, save for one or two books, and this was especially true of those that had pictures) somehow blew up in my brain and became far too involved to be contained in just a book. Because yes, initially I was going to try and write the kind of sex book that I would want to read.
So, that brings us to where we are now. Brand spanking new blog, bright eyed and bushy tailed blogger, and hopes for the future.
What I'm hoping for is an informative, open-minded and safe space for people to talk about sexuality as well as be able to get helpful information, fun ideas, and maybe even recommendations on things here and there.
The other part of this blog is going to be a kind of travel log. See, I'm not actually that experienced in sex. I has sex with a woman once when I was fourteen and that's it. That's all. My relationship with sex has been as a curious onlooker but nothing more. Now that I'm twenty, about to be living on my own, in a relationship, and more willing to take risks and explore, I've decided to take it upon myself to start seeing just what's out there in the big wide world of sexuality.
So, what that means is also going to be a bit like a sexual diary. A place where I write down my thoughts and experiences, ideas and anything else that falls under the topic. This will probably go beyond sex and into gender and the various lifestyles I choose to explore. Right now I'm very interested in BDSM and have attended one munch and one fetish night at a club. I'm going to actually be attending an educational meeting tomorrow and considering going to the fetish night at another club tomorrow evening. I'm starting to make friends who are already in the scene and have been talking to someone who may be willing to act as a mentor/teacher for me. All of these things will be discussed and I hope that you will be willing to share your experiences as well.
And I think that's probably enough talking for me. Hopefully I've given you a basic rundown of who I am, what you can find here, and all the other fun stuff you can expect to get out of me in the future. If you have any questions or comments, you should feel free to email me at abitaskewed@gmail.com.
To all of you out there who managed to stick through this entire into, I wish you kind fires, a warm bed, and, most importantly, someone (or someones) to share it with.
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